Dating Tips and Body Language
Most men do not realise that women send subtle body language clues to men they are interested and attracted too.
Women also expect you to act on their flirting clues and signals. If a man does not act on a signal from the women, she could will see him as gutless and a wimp. Women, like a man that sees them as a sexual creature and is confident in his self and his sexuality.
The big advantage of becoming aware of a women’s body language is that it can help you avoid rejection. You will avoid being rejected if you only ask a women out who has indicated from her body language that she is interested in you.
Simple hey!
Getting rejected by an attractive women is not a very nice feeling and it can damage your self confidence. Having good self confidence and a good self image is very important when talking to a women as she can read this easily in your body language.
Most women are expert in reading men’s body language. In a few seconds a women can tell if a man is worth getting to know.
The more flirting signals the women sends, the more reliable the message of attraction. One body language clue is generally not a reliable signal. One needs to look for group of body language signals. Generally they will come in groups of five.
So what are some flirting signals that most women tend to use.
The first is hair touching or playing with her hair. The hair toss is a great one to watch for. To see an example of this , look at some TV commercials to see the hair toss in action.
Another way of telling you if she is interested is to look at how she sits. If she stands or sits with her crotch straight at you, this is a good sign.
Touching you is a great sign and moving closer and leaning into you when you are talking is a big plus.
Strong eye contact with bedroom eyes is a very good indication of attraction. Another is showing her breasts in some way. E.g. putting her arm under them to make the cleavage or leaning forward so you can see them.
Smiling at you and licking her lips and tilting her head as she talks are other body language signals.
Check out some TV ads and you will see the woman actors using the above signs of flirting body language signals! Also movies are a great way of learning body language as the actors are skilled at this aspect in their craft. It is good to look at the male actors too and see how they express their masculinity.
Women leave many of flirting signals when they are interested in a man. And the more signals they leave for you, the better is the chance that they really like you.
Have fun checking out women’s flirting sigmals. You will be at a big advantage to other men if you start to tune in to the subtle clues.
January 31st, 2009 at 11:20 am
Hi girls……Can I get a few dating tips??
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I'm an unlucky in love kinda guy…boo-hoo, so sad…etc!! lol
I've changed the hair, got myself a new look, changed my attitude a little, but still…..i got nothing as of yet!!
what can you assure me is the best way to attract a girl in terms of speech?? and body language even??
hope you can help
January 31st, 2009 at 4:22 pm
Just be yourself (you'll probably hear this a lot) but it's true. If you're calm and you're being yourself the girl feels much more comfortable rather than you trying to impress her.
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January 31st, 2009 at 4:24 pm
dude, just be yourself, i know a lot of ppl say that but it actually works! be yourself cuz no girl (including me) likes a fake guy who tries to be somethin hes not! and besides, i agree with the answer above me. if ur calm, she'll be more comfortable to talk to you than u tryin to impress her
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January 31st, 2009 at 4:26 pm
get a ford !! or a hummer!!
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January 31st, 2009 at 4:28 pm
Make sure your outfit is straight, make sure you are clean and a good aftershave always works well but don't over do it. You need to have some confidence and a swagger. You don't have to be a stud muffin but women like men with confidence. Your conversation should be straight up. The moment a woman notices any sign of hesitation from you, she'll run away like a virus just hit town.
Good luck!!!
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January 31st, 2009 at 4:30 pm
u shuld always b ur self cuz if u not bein ur self then the girl isnt rlly falling 4 you shes falling for who ur acting, so jus b urself all da time and if dat dont work then mayb u shuld wait 4awhile cuz u hav all ur life 2 found sum1 and u only hav 1 life so dont waste it on sum1 who doesnt like u for who u r!
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January 31st, 2009 at 4:32 pm
I agree completely with the above comments (excluding the car one).
Just be yourself.
Don't start having a look that isn't you and one you don't feel comfortable in. Go out comfy and feel good about yourself, have a nice cologne on and do a little something with your hair. Don't go out hoping to find someone, go out hoping for a good time and while you're having a good time you'll meet some good people. Somebody will come along. Learn to love yourself first, then other people will love you. It's cliché but at the end of the day, it really is true
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Personal experiance.
January 31st, 2009 at 4:34 pm
"Just be yourself" is somewhat true, but too vague.
You need to like yourself. And have confidence. Think of all the reasons you are a great guy and believe them.
Then learn to be a good listener. Really pay attention to the girl and let her talk. You can sometimes rephrase what she said and repeat it back to her in your own words, so that she knows you understand her. Everyone craves to be understood.
Compliment girls, we love it. Tell her she looks good, she's smart, she's wonderful.
Learn to not care so much if you are rejected. Be ready to move on to the next girl. This will increase your confidence and make you more attractive.
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How to Succeed with Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland